make yourself prone to happiness

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Happiness is the consequence of personal effort. You fight for it, strive for it, insist upon it… And, once you have achieved a state of happiness, you must  Never become lax about maintaining it.” — Elizabeth Gilbert

Am I basic for quoting (and really loving) Eat, Love, Pray? I read it the beginning of this year, and fell in love with it.

There is no shortage of information on how to achieve happiness. There are books, movies, poems, songs, articles, and everything in between dedicated to the pursuit of happiness.

While going through my journal scrabbles, I stumbled upon a note I wrote to myself: make yourself prone to happiness.

At the moment, I can only attribute the note to a quote I found a while back:

Enlightenment is an accident; meditation makes you accident prone.”

Making ourselves prone to happiness is about doing things that will help us stumble upon happiness. Instead of waiting for things to happen that make us feel happy, we actively pursue activities, places, people, routines, habits that gets us closer to it.

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As a long time avid happiness pursuer, I have learned that happiness is fleeting. The good news is all emotions are. In the mean time, we can all do the small, and big, things that gets us closer to happiness.

I’m always happy after an intense workout. I love the feeling of  sweat dripping into my eyes (ew!), and my muscles aching as I struggle to catch my breathe.

It is a long road to make it to a workout class though.

Often times, it’s grueling to convince myself to put on workout clothes, leave the house, commute, interact with people, struggle to do some exercises. These things, however wearying, allow me to experience the good feelings that come after a good workout. I know each and every step, despite how challenging, is a step closer to happiness.

One we identify the things that make us happy, we have to commit to restructuring our lives to be prone to happiness.

Until next time… 🙂